Courses & Videos
When Your Adult Child Pulls Away: Healing Within, Shifting the Relationship
If you lie awake replaying conversations and wondering what you did wrong, you’re not alone. This course offers a safe, guided way to begin healing within so you can gradually shift the relationship – without begging, forcing or chasing.
Family conflict is rarely as simple as it looks on the surface. The tension, distance or silence with your adult child is often built on years of unspoken expectations, repeated patterns, and deeply held beliefs about what it means to be a “good mom.”
This course is your space to gently examine those patterns and beliefs. By healing within, you create the conditions for real shifts – in your heart, in your nervous system, and over time, in the way you relate to your adult child.
Your healing matters.
Whenever we heal even a little bit, our relationships shift because we shift
Common Questions
Do I need to be in contact with my adult child to benefit from this course?
No. Everything you’ll learn is about your inner world – your beliefs, reactions, and energy. These shifts are valuable whether you’re currently in contact, low contact, or completely estranged.
Will this course tell me exactly what to say to my child?
You’ll receive guidance on how to communicate from a calmer, safer place, but there are no scripts or magic words. The focus is on who you are being when you speak, not just what you say.
What if I’m afraid I’ll discover that everything is my fault?
This course is not about assigning blame. it’s about helping you see your part with honesty and compassion, while also recognizing your humanity and your efforts. You are not here to be punished – you are here to heal.
Can this course guarantee that my adult child will come back?
No one can guarantee that. What this course offers is a way to heal within, so that whatever your child chooses, you have more peace, clarity and self-respect.
The Complexities of Estrangement
What Does Estrangement truly Mean?
Join Bonny Scott and Karen Stockham as they discuss the complexities of estrangement, especially during the holiday season. They explore what estrangement truly means, the emotional and physical distancing involved, and the various stages it can entail.
Bonny and Karen provide valuable tips and strategies on how to cope with estrangement, foster human connections, and maintain self-awareness during family gatherings. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion, setting boundaries, and understanding the stories we tell ourselves.
This chat aims to support those dealing with family disconnection and offers insights into finding personal peace and connection during trying times.
Karen Stockham Website: http://www.stockhamcoaching.com