Estranged from your
child? I'll help you
"do the work"!

Do you have an adult child who has told you to “do your inner work” as a requirement for a relationship with them?

I’ve supported numerous estranged families to gain the skills they needed to establish different patterns of behavior and change their family relationships. Learn more about estrangement coaching.

Begin Your Connection Journey

Family estrangement is painful. Perhaps your relationship has always been strained or perhaps your adult child has suddenly cut you off. Maybe your relationship is somewhere in the middle: you have contact but only if you walk on eggshells.

What are you struggling with?

• Not knowing how to get your estranged adult child to communicate with you?
• Feeling like you are the only parent to experience family estrangement?
• Not knowing how to fix the adult child dynamic?
• Fearing that your relationship will never improve?
• Processing resentment and anger about your adult child?

Here's How Coaching Works

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Your voice matters and I want to listen. You will learn how coaching together can help you experience greater happiness and peace even in the midst of adult child issues.

Customized Coaching Package

A 6-month individual coaching program via Zoom designed specifically to meet your needs. Integrate healing into your daily life so that your actions are “part of you”.

Parent with Peace

Become the safe person in your adult child relationship. Experience joy in life again even if your adult child’s healing takes longer than you’d like.

Reviews From Clients

With Bonny's gentle coaching, I began to find the hope that I had lost. I found myself again. Today my adult child relationship is exactly where it needs to be and I am at peace. I continue to have curiosity and hope for our future relationship. 15 MONTHS LATER: We had ALL the adult kids home this weekend. And guess what? It went really well. Your voice resonated in my ears several times and got me through a couple of tough moments!

I can't thank you enough for our work together that prepared me for an unexpected, difficult interaction with my adult child. Our interactions over the next 2-3 weeks could so easily have gone differently had I not been working with you. I feel a sense of optimism as our relationship has made real progress. I now trust myself to not react impulsively, to step back and give her (and others in my life) "space". Your work with me was a gift that cannot be overstated.

I felt like my relationship with my adult daughter was spiraling away. With Bonny's guidance, I began to calm the worry and fear that seemed to make me blurt out the wrong things when I talked to my adult daughter. As I noticed my successes, my confidence improved. I am able to approach my daughter with more openness, calmness and listen better. Things between us are improving. I can see that what I have practiced with Bonny will keep our relationship moving in the right direction.

My adult child relationship left me walking on eggshells from the hurtful things said to me. I felt dismissed and rejected. Now I understand and confidently trust the healing process. I have been pleasantly surprised by the effects of my inner work with Bonny on my children. Coaching positively affected all areas of my life too.

I was devastated when our son told us he needed space and not to contact him. I began to understand that I needed to work on my healing and let my son work on his. I now know how to navigate this life event and am at a place of peace. I am no longer afraid of saying the wrong things and I listen better. I wouldn't have been able to get here without Bonny's guidance.

After doing my inner work, I can see myself compassionately. I can be gentle with myself after yeas of being so hard on myself. I didn't believe it was possible before I met Bonny. My healing inspired healing throughout my family. The relationship with my adult child is more authentic and I feel more confident. 8 MONTHS LATER: My adult child relationship continues to improve beyond belief. I validate the heck out of him. He'll say, "Thank you for listening, for hearing me, for understanding." Because I am different, our relationship has changed.

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Your Connection

Here’s what makes my approach unique:

• Powerful Coaching Toolbox: I combine mindset and somatic principles to help your powerful brain and your wise heart work together to create emotional balance.
• My Healing Philosophy: In my experience, healing happens in sprinkles (not like Niagra Falls), one gentle bit at a time.
• Customization: I draw on my certification training and my experience of wor- king with hundreds of people to create a customized coaching package just for you.

I’ll help you show up with compassion, confidence and calmness so that when the opportunity arises to interact with your adult child, you’re better prepared.

Schedule a complimentary call today to take the first step toward a life of greater peace, happiness and possibility.

Estranged from your child? I'll help you "do the work"!