Estrangement Coaching
I get it. Your children have always come first.
It’s human nature to want to set your adult child straight. You begin explaining why you did what you did in hopes that your adult child will listen and understand your viewpoint. Maybe your adult child suggested you get “estrangement coaching” to deal with “your problems”. (How dare they!)
You may think that the estrangement is a “phase” your adult child is going through. Often parents wait for an adult child to finally “get over it” so that the relationship can go “back to normal”. In my experience that’s unlikely to happen.
I believe that being at peace with your adult child is possible, without your adult child having to change at all. Changes in either person always affects the relationship. Any shift you experience affects the health of the relationship.
You don’t have to figure out estrangement alone. Thinking you “should” know how to handle adult child estrangement is a harsh expectation and will create more disconnect.
As one of the few family estrangement experts, I guide you to look at the blind spots showing up in your relationship with gentleness and compassion. That’s when healthier connection can happen.
Here's what makes my approach unique:
- Powerful Coaching Toolbox: I combine mindset and somatic principles to help your powerful brain and your wise heart work together to create emotional balance.
- My Healing Philosophy: In my experience, healing happens in sprinkles (not like Niagra Falls), one gentle bit at a time.
- Customization: I draw on my certification training and my experience of working with hundreds of people to create a customized coaching package just for you.
I’ll help you show up more compassionately, confidently and calmly to help shift the relationship dynamic. Be the caring parent you want to be.
Schedule a complimentary call today to take the first step toward a life of greater peace, happiness and possibility.
Here's How Coaching Works
Schedule a Call
Your voice matters and I want to listen. You will learn how coaching together can help you experience greater happiness and peace even in the midst of adult child issues.
Customized Coaching Package
A 6-month individualized coaching program via Zoom designed specifically to meet your needs. Practice the tools you learn so that your healing is part of you.
Parent with Peace
Become the safe person in your adult child relationship. Experience joy in life again even if your adult child’s healing takes longer than you’d like.
Frequently Asked Questions
No, I do not take insurance. As far as I can tell, family issues such as estrangement are not covered by insurance because insurance requires a medical diagnosis.
Most often, clients feel confident and ready to handle the difficulties of adult child estrangement on their own after 6 months. My intent is to help you transform how you think (changing neural pathways) and be able to respond from your heart (emotional intelligence).
“Knowing” from your head won’t create connection with yourself or your adult child. That’s part of the problem you’re having now. You’re trying to “think” your way to a healthier relationship.
We want to teach our incredible brain and our wise heart to work together so that we show up differently: more compassionately, confidently and calmly. That’s when our adult child relationship can experience a shift.
Then nothing will change. The pain you’re experiencing will continue without hope of relief. Your brain will continue to try to find solutions outside of you, which won’t work.
Your happiness is limited. Consequently your ability to create and fulfill dreams and goals is limited.
You may book an individual session here: https://bonnyscottlifecoach.as.me/onesession. I do recognize that sometimes an unusual situation may not need a full package.
Adult child relationships are complex and solutions don’t normally happen with one session.
The 6 month program costs $800 USD per month or $4,500 USD if paid in full (a $300 savings).
You will receive 24 – 50 minute weekly sessions via zoom plus text support. I will answer texts during my normal business hours Monday - Friday, 8 am - 5 pm Mountain Time.
Communicating about vacations or business trips gives me the opportunity to reschedule your missed session to the end of your package.
The coaching relationship is based on mutual respect. I ask for 4 hours notice if you won’t be able to attend a session. I also know that sometimes a person may wake up feeling horrible and unable to attend. Text or email me as soon as possible. I will reschedule the session for either a different day during the week or to the end of your package, whichever is best for you.
Yes. I have a contract that you will be able to sign electronically. The contract outlines the details of our coaching relationship, the cost, the length of time we will work together, the cancellation and refund policies.
Payment will be made via Stripe. You may use either credit or debit cards. I will send an invoice after we have agreed on our meeting time.
The first step is to book a free consult so that I can better understand your situation, you can get questions answered and we can decide on a day and time to meet each week.
Certified Life & Weight Coach - The Life Coach School; Coaching with Spirit & IFS; Standing Together Levels 1-3; Rules of Estrangement with Dr. Joshua Coleman