Okay, so there I was in the bathroom getting ready for bed and ready to tell Michael about something that wasn’t earth shattering but….I thought it was kinda cool. Anyway, I barely got the first sentence out before he cut me off and starting talking. As you know, we’ve been married for a long time but..I was like, “Really??? Serious???” Geez. Anyway, we had a “back and forth” experience with me trying to get across to him what I wanted to say. Man. Futile. Hopeless. Not happening.
I went to bed….irritated….and didn’t sleep particularly well that night.
Then I talked to my life coach and by her responses, I was beginning to think that she didn’t “get it”. But she kept with it. It only took a few words, spoken at the right time and suddenly I was like, “What?!?” The ah-ha moment was beginning and my mind was opening. As I worked through the process, I began to see that Michael wasn’t my problem. It was me. And that was okay. Sometimes humans do that. Slept like a baby that night.
That’s what I love most about learning and growing…those ah-ha moments.